This will be a short letter for women to understand how they are killing their self worrying about this disease (I think anything negative is a disease) you will find that out quickly & this is why they CANNOT shine properly. This is going to be so so sooo short… because I like to get straight to the point. Before we start I had an idea… why don’t I incorporate sound to pair with some of my articles moving forward (So this is the first). I can give you something to focus on to drown out your own thoughts, and pick up my words.. otherwise you will be thinking about everything that doesn’t matter right now.

(If you choose feel free to open this link in another window to relax, read and retain the words that I am putting down for you to pick up)

Let’s dive into COMPARISON before I jump into what I want to say.. this will be quick and to the point. Be sure to bookmark this to return to later.

What is COMPARISON – A consideration or estimate of the similarities or dissimilarities between two things or people.

Does that make sense? I sure hope so. Find below my theory, because we know I always have a theory.

Many women will find their self here younger and older because the truth is, this is a normal human thing to do. Before you wake up and realize how pointless it truly is. It literally gets a person no where except for being stuck in their own mind, which can be like a prison. (That’s their problem) we’re here to focus on my reader. As my reader you understand why this is happening and how to basically live your life, unbothered, unmoved and unphased. oh, and unresponsive!

Simply put this can tie into my “Why some women do not treat other women well” article (Which is another natural human emotion many are battling IF they have settled for areas in their life) if they cannot reflect on their life with NO regrets, and true internal joy and say they took risk, they didn’t settle for just any partner, any lifestyle… and they lived out their wildest dreams. I find it hard that these women will really really really clap for someone with a fresh set of eyes on life and who has internal joy. (You) you still have a zeal for life, an excitement, ideas, creations, and just a positive outlook on life. You may even be “The life of the party, The light that cannot be put out” basically….. and as you should be.. and that is OK actually that’s normal. It’s your life, your story, and you should not dim that light down for anyone regardless to who they are or were. (You would be crazy to do that!)

Being a healthcare professional for over 10 years I have heard many women saying the same thing. When they come in with complaints of anxiety, depression, feeling unseen or unheard it, it bothers my natural unbothered-ness lol…. and it gets old to hear. When I wish everyone had my mindset with things like this. Not only do I hear this from patients in the healthcare world, but also in my daily life. Whether it’s in my health world or my marketing world. Because I also have a marketing/communications world that I have been apart of as well. Doesn’t matter... same stories over and over. Many times it is from women who are much older at times and should know better, but many have not done the internal work to do better for the younger generations of women behind them, and you know what… that is OK too (It’s almost like many may have missed the bigger picture) a woman’s wisdom, grace and knowledge is to be passed down, but many will try to sabotage your destiny or your future… on purpose. (Learn to trust your GUT) because as a healthcare professional I can tell you. Your gut is connected to your brain… so trust that! you know what you feel and if it’s unsettling you have permission to move around (In other words remove yourself from the equation) I will wrap this up here and leave things here. The main take aways are to learn to trust yourself, and give yourself permission to be unbothered, and not dim down any parts of yourself or your life.

TRUST YOURSELF, LEARN TO ADORN YOURSELF, LEARN TO PLACE BOUNDARIES AROUND YOURSELF, AND LEARN TO FORGIVE (LET GO) AND ENJOY YOUR LIFE. CREATE NICE EXPERIENCES, ONLY INTERACT WITH POSITIVE PEOPLE, AND ENJOY THE FRUIT OF LIFE. Stay Lit! (No pun intended)