Having to be inspired this way was a challenge… but it is, what it is.

You found yourself in this area for a reason…. You can’t figure out what’s going on,… “why are you always seemingly a target for women?” Are questions you ask yourself 9/10. Women you have tried to be kind to, befriend, or simply let in a little bit… right? right….. Same story. Different Woman. You have found yourself wondering over and over…. Why me? I am so humble, so kind, so giving, so positive…. Why do some women simply just treat me like I’m just the worst woman they have come into contact with. One word. MIRROR. YOU ARE A MIRROR for who they are not and wish to be. Get used to it…… stop taking it personal…. in this short blog post. I want to be intentional, purposeful and to the point in 5 eerie reasons why some women just simply can’t let you out of their grip. They love you, and hate you at the same time….. this will be a different take

“Heavy on… knowing who are as a woman, before you even read this article. ” let’s get into this, so you can bookmark it, re-read it later and send it to a friend.

1. JEALOUSLY AND COMPETITION – Simply put many women are not in love with who God has created based on how they have taken care of themselves, the personal choices they have made OR how much they have compared their self to other women, Many women have gone so left field from who they could be or create themselves to be, that they cannot figure out how to get back to her. She is simply projecting her insecurities unto you, her lack of will power to produce change within, or become who she wants to become…. She cannot create inner peace So what is the easiest thing to do? Find women who elude a inner peace, joy and contentment with who they are and their life and rage outwardly towards her..…. you may unfortunately be a target for the jealous and competitive woman (if you are here, you ARE her target) (As I write this article…. my heart softens for these women, because they simply are sad within.. they don’t know they can become who they see you as…. the idea is just unrealistic for her (and she has psyched herself into thinking, she would never want to be like someone like you… she does... every woman wants to have inner peace and love for themselves)–Society has created a beauty standard or a standard of women “Men admire and who other Women respect, or want to be more like” (Unfortunately….but it’s truth) … so when a women who has not put in the effort and time within herself, she will point out that woman (which in this case is you) and instantly and HATE her type of “woman”, for how the world has raised her up , in her face for decades and decades…. sadly you are that woman for her… in her eyes, everyone loves you, respects you and she does not see herself as embodying that same power sadly. (Soften your heart as you continue to read this article… remove yourself and properly educate yourself with grace, so by the end of this article you will reverse your stress, questions and doubt) it’s not you….. it’s her, it has always been her (You aren’t crazy, it’s not in your head… this has been ongoing for decades amongst women of light and women of darkness) When you remove the personal aspect from it, you will not be so confused, hurt, or wonder “Why me…” ever again. You just will never care again about encountering these type of women.

2. PROJECTION- Let me explore the word with you first – the presentation of an image on a surface, especially a movie screen. *Plays Shoday & Batlife – Queen N More*

Many women especially ones that are here seeking answers, have not looked in the mirror long enough. You… Yes you. You have not spent enough time alone, exploring yourself, looking deep within to know why this happens to you. Maybe you have, but you simply have not saw yourself for how other unhappy women would and will see you…forever! You must KNOW how you look when you walk in a room, how you walk, sit, stand, talk, how others see you and smell….. yes women who have a light spirit have a scent to them. (Imagine the room getting more fresh when you walk in……a breath of fresh air) you are a breath of freshness in the air. If you know how chemical reaction works (Perfume and Lotion) will smell different on each person depending on how their bodies natural chemistry mixes it. You really have a distinct scent when you are light!

Now that you know that.. When some women are TOXIC within they are simply pushing out some of their overflowing toxic internal space outwardly. It is never personal to you. They see you and it is like Oil looking at Water, Dark looking at Light… they just simply do not mix (never will and were not designed to, until they choose to change within) Many of these women know what they need to work on, and what they may want to do, but it’s just easier to avoid it for some and hate anyone who does what they may have always wanted to do, how they want to look, or simply how they want to feel inside. They want joy, peace and they want others to enjoy seeing them, how they notice people love seeing YOU!

3. INTERNALIZED MISOGYNY – They may judge other women for their choices, looks, or behavior based on societal conditioning. Many women if you ask them “Why don’t you like XYZ?” they will pull something out of their heads….and the scary part is they will believe it! (Watch their faces as you ask, look at their body language) Many women have made up many scenes in their minds of things that simply aren’t reality. Many have been passed down beliefs about all different types of women from their families, OR the media. (Many of these kind of women take and harvest all types of random data about certain women, and keep it for the day they see someone who fits their agenda…sorry it’s you this time) I am sure you have been dressed up at some point and heard a woman ask “You must have a date?” An assumption that all women, who put effort into their self must be doing it for a mans approval or gaze.(And you know how these women feel about women, who capture the attention of men..…oh man that is many only life concern or mission: “How to capture a mans gaze”) Many women who lack self confidence and comfortability cannot wrap their minds around a woman really… really getting dressed to enjoy a day out alone, or with girlfriends. Society has many of those type of women conditioned to be typical “Pick me” type of women. There is nothing you can do about these type of women. They are groomed and conditioned to hate you, because they have not learned to break out of their conditioned thoughts. (These are not the type of women you would and should ever allow close to you anyways....) because they do not like you based on how men view you, how society draws to you and even how other women of light connect with you!

4. LIFESTYLE & VALUES – You simply live a different lifestyle than the women who show discontentment for you. You are 9/10 set apart and you’re supposed to be…. so the worst thing you can do is seek to blend or be liked and accepted by every person walking this earth. Especially a hate filled person…. especially another woman (let me be very clear who we are discussing here) That is not what life is about. Life is about how YOU are as a person in the world AND behind closed doors. Who you create yourself to become and be. (How you are behind closed doors matter most) and it shows when you show up around women who have a life built on Chaos, Pretend and Destruction! Understand this… some women have no peace, no routine, no passion, no internal purpose, no internal joy, and no reason to celebrate others who have discovered these things about her self. Why would you, and should you be the exception to her? …. really think about that…. how can you take this personal for more years of your life? How can you care and focus on the “WHY” and think this is about you? (And when you think about it that way…. you start to feel more sorry for these women…… but not sorry enough to have them close to you! Hell nah...) You have created internal and external value. (Be happy, you are where you are) Women always notice other women… typically before men, because many men are surface level. Women look within and out. They look at the total picture, and you so happen to be a complete picture (To them at least… lucky you! *Sarcasm at its finest*) because we know, no one is perfect but you have been dehumanized by women like this and so has the women way before you in time. You are deemed perfect in their eyes. Very unrealistic, but true.

5. THEY SETTLED FOR THE LIFE THEY CREATED (Even if they hate it, they created it) – Sadly put… many women are living either another woman’s life (they faked their way into a life) OR they failed to chase, and create the life they really wanted. They settled sweetheart. It has nothing to do with you. Let’s get that out the way. They see you (let’s not make this too much about the actual you, but we will use you here.. since it’s you reading this) and you are smiling, smelling great, looking better, skin glowing, you don’t gossip, you have grace… feminine… just blessed! and they are 10-20-30 years older than you in full regret to their choices…. keyword: Their choices (You are giving them flashbacks, of the the life they could have chosen at your age possibly) Flashbacks that your brain cannot and should not even worry about processing…… it’s simply not your business…. and if they’re younger than you, you really have to ignore that, because they are on their journey of creating unknowingly and many younger women think they know everything (As is right… we did too lol no one could tell me anything in my 20’s). Many young women are in such a RUSH to become (I used to be the same way) many will miss the women who could mentor them, or teach them something but honestly no. (It’s not worth trying to save women, young or old unless you’re qualified as a professional or called to do so) DO NOT WASTE YOUR LIFE OR TIME TRYING TO FIGURE WOMEN OUT.… it would be silly when many women don’t even know their self. If you ask most women “What do they want to eat” they will say “I don’t know….” if you ask many “What do they like to do” many will have no clue…. and that is a jab, but it’s the truth and if you are here, you know that. SIMPLY PUT: They are living with much regret, and you are in their face with passion, purpose and contentment. Stand in that energy field and be comfortable with it. It isn’t changing……. Women have been the same before the beginning of time if they are unhappy within, they are unhappy outwardly.

I hope this clarified for you why some women simply will never like you unless they choose to change (Whether they do or don’t is not your business… who cares) You are assigned to worry about and govern 1 person and that person is YOU. Most importantly

I hope you realize this kind of behavior is NEVER personal to you, because if it wasn’t you, it would be someone else.

After this please be confident in who you are, know who you are, and find community with like minded women with their OWN passion, purpose and light. Light must mingle with Light. You cannot force it any other way.

Until next time……..

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